Case Study
A client came to me because of her weight issue, she had tried everything she could to loose weight but nothing seemed to work.
In her intake she said she felt dirty, embarrassed and ashamed by her weight issue.
The regression for her took her back to when she was 2 years old and
sadly she was abused by a parent, she had no conscious recollection of this
incident, it was only in the session it came up.
She would be rewarded by snacks after the events took place.
She felt dirty, embarrassed and ashamed of her weight but the truth
was she felt all those things about the abuse. She felt guilty because as
a child she wanted to spend alone time with the parent because she got treated better then the others, and was made to feel special, once explained that we are
sexual beings from birth, and this was a normal reaction to physical touch she was able to
let go of the guilt.
She was over eating for two reasons, food tastes good and when I feel
good it means I have been a good girl, and secondly if she was
overweight no one would find her attractive and it was protection for
her
We went into forgiveness for the abuse and she agreed she had suffered enough, she was finally willing to let it all go, by forgiving we are never saying it is ok, we are simply saying we are no longer willing to put energy into something that no longer serves us, at this time she was signed up to a contract, she had no choice, but Today she is resigning.
This session was 3 months ago, she has gained confidence, lost weight and now beginning to look at dating!
Secondary gain is at work here again, using the weight as protection,
no one would look at her and she was safe from further abuse.
peace is health!
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