I have learnt so much in my training, and
feel I need to educate parents and parents to be on how we can all do a
better job on raising the future generation.
Did you know from the age of birth to seven years a child's subconscious
is wide open ? this means everything they see, hear, feel and
experience will go in to their programming, and remain there.
By the age of around 15 years,the sub conscious is finished growing and
begins to solidify. this is typically why teenagers are troublesome, it
is because they are realizing hey what a minute? What happened to me was
NOT ok or they suddenly have emotions coming up and do not know where
they come from.
We all know that sadly some households are less than desirable and the
effect this has on children, but did you know we may have had a very
happy childhood and still have issues because of the incorrect belief
system we formed at a younger age?
For example a client came to see me, he had issues with the women in his
life and has begun to act violently towards them, this was getting
worse.
Things were so bad that his latest relationship ended because he had controlled her so much, beat her and locked her in a closet, his temper was getting worse and apart from the fact he felt terrible for behaving in such a way but confused because he just couldn't work out where it was coming from.
He was suffering from a belief system of unlovable, he felt abandoned.
We did a regression back to the time which caused him to feel these
negative feelings, we went back to when he was two, he was out in the
yard playing on his bike when he fell off and the bike landed on top of
him, he was trapped and hurt.
He called out to his mommy who did not arrive until some ten minutes had
passed, during that time he concluded, I'm unworthy, unlovable, bad
and abandoned also that he could no longer trust women. At that time he was unable to understand that his mom was
in fact getting the shopping from the car and did not hear his calls
for help.
However the damage was already done, when she realized what had happened
she took him inside and reassured him and dressed his wounds and
thought he would be ok.
He began to have issues at school, especially female teachers, he
started to be rude and disrespectful towards them and in turn his mother.
He became a bully at school and started to pick on girls, as he
got older, this started to get worse.
When he was a teenager he began
dating but found himself needing to control the relationship, the first
real relationship he had, his girlfriend cheated on him, it was then things took a
dramatic turn.
He began to be even more controlling and then the physical abuse began,
after a few failed relationships he sought help.
Because of this one innocent event it caused him to have the incorrect
belief system, which in tun turned him into a controlling abuser, after
the regression he was all healed and the relationship with his mom was
finally made better.
So you can see from the above example that something "silly" can
actually lead to something significant.
When we are parenting we would be better coming from a place of love and
nurturing, yes of course we love our children but if we can understand
how much our actions and words can affect a child forever we may decide to
change the way we do things.
How many times have we seen a child picking it's nose? The mother
typically when realizes whats happening says "oh my god that's dirty do
not do that it's bad"! When maybe if we said "honey if your nose needs
cleaning let mommy know and I can get you a tissue, here let's go and
get one", we may get a better result in the long term.
True we don't always have time to think about what we say but think
about the alternative, what message are you sending out and what effect
could this have on the future generation?
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