Friday, December 27, 2013

I don't Deserve

Case Study

A client walked into my office after trying for a baby for 3 years, medically everything seemed to be ok, but it just wasn’t happening.
I asked her how she felt about this issue and she reported feeling, ashamed, embarrassed, evil and angry.
She had told me she had been pregnant in the past and lost the baby, so she knew it was possible to conceive.
During a regression she was back in hospital, however it was when she had an termination, she felt all those negative emotions at the time, once she was able to see that she did the best she could at that time in her life given the resources she had she was able to forgive herself for making the choice.
Because in her mind she felt bad and evil for the choice she made back then this was what was stopping her from getting pregnant, the phrase that came back was you don’t deserve to have a child you had your chance and blew it.
After the session she felt a sense of relief and said that she had almost convinced herself that it never happened.
When I followed up 6 weeks later she said she was pregnant and they were over the moon, currently she is 4 months pregnant and having a wonderful pregnancy.


By not thinking she was worthy of a baby because of an earlier choice she actually stopped herself from conceiving a child, yet again secondary gain was at work here.
Secondary gain is usually to blame for most things a hypnotherapist deals with, but it is understandable that the client felt this way, however is it something a session can resolve.

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